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About Kate Amber MSc

Coercive Control Expert Witness Services

Kate Amber MSc is a Coercive Control Expert with a Master of Science in the Psychology of Coercive Control. Ms. Amber is the Creator & Developer of The Quicksand Model® of Coercive Control.

Proud Member of the American Bar Association
Survivor of The Year
Kate Amber
2022 & 2023
Most Innovative Service
2022
Outstanding Community Presentation or Education 2023
Domestic Violence Training Program  2024
Speaker / Trainer of the Year
2025
Outstanding Multi-Agency Partnership
2025
2023-2024 / Member of
The American Bar Association
Welcome!

My Name is Kate Amber MSc

I am a domestic violence, domestic abuse and coercive control expert with a Master of Science in the Psychology of Coercive Control from the University of Salford, the only university in the world that offers a master's program in coercive control.

In 2022 I completed my master's dissertation and research, which was a mixed-methods study to validate The Quicksand Model® of Coercive Control. I hold certifications in Executive Leadership in Violence & Abuse Prevention from the University of Pennsylvania, ADA Advocacy from Equal Access Advocates, Human Rights Consultancy from the US Institute of Diplomacy and Human Rights, and have been trained in the CORE program by the Safe & Together Institute (at the intersection of domestic violence and child abuse). I am also a member of the American Bar Association.

As both an expert and survivor of domestic abuse and coercive control, I have served on domestic violence task force committees, volunteered and presented for the Stop Abuse Campaign, served as Secretary of the Austin Police Department's 99th Citizen's Police Academy, and founded End Coercive Control USA (ECCUSA). ECCUSA is a founding partner of the International Coercive Control Conference, where I served on the Steering (and other) Committees and chaired the Governance Committee in 2021. I created the BioPsychoSocial Quicksand Model® of Coercive Control, which I presented during the International Coercive Control Conference in 2021 for the first time.

I consult, train, speak and offer coercive control expert witness testimony in cases that involve domestic violence, domestic abuse, coercive control and child abuse. As a coercive control trainer, consultant and speaker I assist organizations in the detection and prevention of coercive control. And as an expert witness and consultant on coercive control, human rights and domestic abuse cases, I provide expert testimony and case assessments & reports for civil, criminal and family court cases.

Coercive control is a systemic problem the world over. It negatively impacts relationships, families, churches, governments, communities and organizations, as it violates our human rights. The Quicksand Model® of Coercive Control that I created, and continue to develop, using evidence-based research, simplifies the complex and nuanced nature of the malevolent strategy of coercive control, allowing organizations, businesses, communities, families, schools and social groups to detect, intervene in, and prevent coercive control wherever it may arise.
Most experts in domestic abuse and/or coercive control are either professionally educated experts or experts with lived experience. I have been fortunate (and unfortunate) to have had coercive control educational expertise and lived experience expertise in coercive control, with lived experience in several areas where coercive control is prevalent. This gives me a unique and well-rounded perspective on the relationships between trauma, abuse, addiction, personality disorders, parenting, group dynamics and coercive control. These connections are on the cutting edge of mental health, domestic abuse, coercive control, trauma-informed care and neuroscience.

My thoughts on Coercive Control

I believe that ...
Coercive control is the strategic pattern of tactics that underpins all forms of oppression, and by detecting, intervening in, and preventing, coercion and control, in its many forms, we simultaneously reduce oppression...

Increasing Equality, Justice and Freedom for Everyone!
ECCUSA and The Quicksand Model® of Coercive Control were founded on the following principles:

1. Centering and empowering victim/survivors in our efforts to end domestic abuse, domestic violence & coercive control.

2. Dismantling coercive control within our organizations, religions, companies, families, governments and systems to empower individuals & communities to heal, grow and thrive.

3. Holding coercive controllers 100% responsible and accountable for the harm they cause.

4. Removing victim-blaming and empowering survivors to regain their dignity, liberty and freedom.

I am deeply grateful to Emma Katz, Evan Stark, Judith Herman, Kelsey McKay, Sandra Brown, Andrew Cicchetti, SHERA Research Group and the psychology of coercive control program leaders at Salford, Linda & Rod Dubrow-Marshall, as well as many other experts in the field, for their support and influence on my work in trauma and coercive control.

THANK YOU!
"Coercive Control is a Strategic Pattern of Abuse of Power"
Kate Amber MSc
Nothing on this site is meant to diagnose or treat any disease or condition. It is for education and informational purposes only. If you find yourself dealing with a coercive controller, please use your best judgement in seeking professional assistance. You can do so by contacting the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233), or a local shelter if the person is your partner, ex-partner or family member. If the coercive controller is in your workplace, and you can do so safely, we recommend you go to HR. If your coercive controller is in your church or any other type of organization, consider bringing coercively controlling behavior to the attention of the person in charge. If your case involves human trafficking (modern day slavery), you may consider contacting the National Human Trafficking Hotline (888-373-7888).

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